Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Who’s Your Pastor? [Pastors and Practice]

5 comments:

SharonSislockWall said...

I just want to say that I SO appreciate my senior pastor in this regard. He's fairly high profile around town and internationally known, yet he always introduces himself as "one of the pastors here..." I'd say, though, that even while he makes clear to us the limits of his role at our church, and the strengths and positions and functions of the other pastors and the elder board, most people would consider him "the" pastor. And I wonder if when people ask "Who is the pastor" they don't simply just want to know who's the primary preacher, which is why even in a multiple-elder church the response is usually just that one name.

Chris Krycho said...

Sharon—that's a good example. I think your comment about what people are really asking is insightful as well. One of the points Ben started to touch on in this post, and will continue to hit on in the future, is how we can start to point people in the right direction by answering carefully.

In a lot of churches, too, the idea of multiple elders is still pretty foreign. Colorado Springs is a good deal more diverse than Oklahoma in terms of church polities; in Norman there's a grand total of one PCA church, for example. Most Southern Baptist churches remain on the one-pastor lots-of-governing-deacons model, which (as we've written) we disagree with. In that context, the question is far more loaded than it might be in areas with broader representations of church government.

Ben Arbour said...

Thanks, Chris, for the comment. Your response to Sharon is exactly what I wanted to write.

Sharon, I understand and appreciate your point. In fact, the reality that you've pointed to is exactly what I'd like to see change.

Jaimie Krycho said...

More and more I see how much the way we say things affects people's long-term impressions. You're right. This is goofy, but I remember when I first ran into "the" pastor at my childhood church, and I told my family, "I feel like I just met a celebrity."

humbleadoration said...

One of the reasons we chose Fellowship Church in College Station is that they had elders that really functioned as a team, as can be seen on the pastors page of the website (http://www.fellowshipbcs.org/AboutUs/OurPastorsStaff.aspx). The three pastors are elders, and the deacons serve the church instead of governing the church. Each deacon teaches on Sunday morning at least once a year and the elders share the rest of the teaching responsibilities. I have never before been involved in a church where so many different men invested so much in serving and leading the church.

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