The way we do youth ministry is failing. I am writing this series, Youth Ministry: Preparing for Failure?, because after high school, half of our youth will drop out of the church for good. While there are a lot of positives in current youth ministries, I’m harping on the negatives because something is broken. What are we doing wrong? What can we do better?
Now, take off your easily-offended glasses, put on your discerning ones—and let’s get started.
I grew up in youth ministry. From 7th grade on, I participated in Sunday School, drama team (Sunday afternoon), Sunday night discipleship and Wednesday night events. I always went to summer camp, did all the service projects, went on every mission trip, and went to Disciple Now each February (except that one time I was sick). And I ran sound for both Sunday nights and Wednesday nights throughout most of high school. When it came to youth group cred, I was ballin’.
Having been removed from youth ministry for some time now—and having watched many of my former peers walk away from the faith they once professed—I have begun to wonder: is youth ministry effective? More personally: is your youth ministry effective? How many kids who go through your youth ministry remain in church during and after college? (I know that’s a difficult number for most laity to track, but retention is probably the best gauge of effectiveness.) According to research at LifeWay, if about half of them stay in church after college, then the ministry is better than average. But that’s a lousy average, isn’t it?